have you ever noticed that when someone makes a post or a comment about how white men suck, the white men who respond angrily are not only offended, but shocked. 

shocked that anyone would make a sweeping generalization about a group of people. shocked that they would be judged for something that they can’t control.

because they have no idea what it’s like to hear that kind of stuff about oneself every single day, both blatantly and subtly.